Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Explosive Sex and Orgasms for Men and Women

If you want  intense pleasure, then this may be the most valuable letter you will ever read...
"Who Else Wants To Experience
Nights of Togetherness and Passion Leading to
EXPLOSIVE Sex
Every Time You Make Love!"
If you've ever wondered why some couples merely have "sex" while others have many multiple, body full-body orgasms, you're about to experience those secrets.
By Maurice Tate, Author of "14 Days to Sexual Ecstasy"
Dear Friend,
Sometimes it's hard to admit the truth, but it happens to all of us...
You've been involved in a relationship that got stale as you became comfortable with your sex life. You did everything you could think of and then you became bored with the same old routine. You started to wonder is that all there is? More relationships fail, causing heartbreak and humiliation, due to tired, predictable sex.
Do you want to...
  • Feel like a master in the bedroom as you learn total control over when you ejaculate to prolong sex as long as you like
     
  • Learn the truth about the G Spot, where it is and what to do with it
     
  • Bring your lover to orgasmic peaks like never before with tantra massage
     
  • Experience your lover radiating her love and admiration for you in her eyes after sex
     
  • Rev up your sex life to heights you never even knew were possible
     
  • Explore and deepen intimacy with the best Kama Sutra positions
     
  • Discover simple techniques to help you and your partner work through emotional pain and blocks associated with sex
     
  • Discover tantric sex, the sort of sex that most women really want and can't get enough of
     
  • Command the sexual attention of your woman with multiple orgasms for BOTH of you
     
  • Create an amazingly deep spiritual connection with your partner while enjoying the best sex of your life
     
If you answered yes to any of these questions, then my tantric sex guide, "14 Days to Sexual Ecstasy" was written just for you! You will learn to go far beyond the average sexual techniques to blow the lid off what you might have considered to be the pinnacle of sexual experience.

I Changed From A Boring Sex Nerd To A
Professional Tantric Massage Therapist That Gets Paid To Touch Pussy!

I thought that I had reasonable sex with my partner. And I did consider myself a caring lover. After all, I always made sure she came before intercourse, as she had never had an orgasm during intercourse.

I was frustrated because we made love only about 3 times a month and I wanted more! I felt many times my lover only made love to keep me happy and she wasn’t really that keen. I think we both knew we were heading for a separation. Out of frustration with our sex life, we took a chance and booked into a tantra course. During the course, we did a hugging exercise.

The course leader hugged my lover and she actually passed out from the intense energy.
  He caught her as she dropped to the floor!

Well, this was pretty devastating. I really felt that I was less than a man. I could see, right before my eyes, how another man gave my lover an intense, sexual experience, just from a hug. She never responded to me that way. Of course, she wanted to sleep with this man!
 

I Really Needed To Get My Act Together, Or Lose My Lover Forever!


The next day, after my lover had spent 4 hours making love with the course leader (imagine how THAT made me feel!) I was just lying next to her and was stunned to find she was actually in an intense orgasmic state from no touching at all.

Gee, I thought, this is not fair at all. Why can’t I have such orgasmic experiences? I think I set an intention to open myself up to feeling her energy and looked deep into her eyes.  I was really surprised when I started shaking spontaneously and then had a big rhythmical energy release.

Wow, this is new, I thought. This experience happened 3 times as I seemed to gain energy.
Then ….

My Lover Said You Are Having Orgasms Without Ejaculating!

Wow, I had to agree with her. And this experience was with no physical stimulation at all! I was just looking into her eyes with my lover being intensely orgasmic.

Suddenly I realized there was much more to sex than I had experienced. I knew I had to really study sex and learn how to take my lover much deeper, into profound orgasmic and even tantric sex, if I wanted to enjoy a fully rich and satisfying sex life.

Over the next few years I took every course on sexuality, tantra and personal development I could find.  I spend thousands of dollars in real sexual education. I read books, discovered the power of tantra, practiced new ways of making love, and had some amazing experiences.
If you are having routine (boring) sex with your lover, there is a big chance she will leave you at some stage.
Sex Surveys: 65% Of Women Are Unsatisfied With Their Sex Life.
I have a theory that I tell my clients and it is called "unfaithful lover" theory. It's pretty simple really. If you are an Unskilled Lover then this will result in an Unfaithful Lover partner. And this goes the other way too.
I think you get the point....
I discovered that it was pretty easy to become a more skilled lover. By looking at my own sexuality and studying some simple tantra secrets, I found it was easy to make love for hours and enjoy every minute. Most men never take the time to become an expert lover or even read a book about sexuality.
When dating, this knowledge can be a huge advantage. Dropping a hint that you are interested in tantric sex really gets most women very interested in finding out more. Most men are too scared to even mention anything about sex. However, women really want a man with sexual self confidence and mastery. I even do a simple tantric routine (no nudity) on my first date and have been told time and time again, NO OTHER MAN has ever done this!
You can learn this same routine in about 3 minutes!
And I discovered a simple truth that all women never tell you face to face.

Women Love Ecstatic Sex Much More Than Men!

Most women have much deeper and profound experiences in sex than men. They go to realms that most men just never enter, they're not even aware these realms exist. Women can make love for hours and hours.

Now you will never get women to tell you just how much they just really LOVE sex, as society labels women that really love sex, especially if they have more than one lover, as sluts. The funny thing is that men that have a lot of lovers are called a stud!
However...    The Average Man Comes In 6 minutes In Intercourse
As a man, I needed to learn how to unleash the full sexual potential of my lover. Part of this is learning total mastery of when you ejaculate.

I live in an area where many women are focusing on self development and sexuality. A sexy, close friend of mine told me that most men she makes love with are just not present in lovemaking. A few other women also have told me the same thing, too. They are very interested in tantric sex.

When my friend first told me this, I really did not get it. I mean, if they are not present, how is she making love with them? She then told me most of her lovers are in their minds and are just trying to please, or they are focusing on the end of sex with an orgasm and ejaculation. Most women are very in tune, they pick up on this straight away and hate it! They want something more from sex than is provided by the average guy .

So the next time I made love, instead of being goal orientated or just trying to please my woman….

I Focused More On My Own Pleasure In Sex And Foreplay

Instead of a 100% focus on my lover, I had to be more in MY body, my heart and my penis. Trying this next time I made love, my lover felt my energy and presence much more. The more I felt my own pleasure, the more my lover felt my energy, love, sexiness and strength.

Being present in MY body allowed my lover to trust me more and then let go more. Then, I felt her energy more in my body. So I needed first to go inside myself and then to connect to my lover. This inner awareness also allowed me to relax more in high excitement and last much longer, too.
This crucial step is rarely mentioned in any standard sex manual I have read, but it was emphasized in the tantra workshops I have attended.
I cover some simple exercises to learn total mastery over when you come in my tantric sex guide, "14 Days to Sexual Ecstasy."
Attending the tantric workshop where the course leader hugged my lover, I found a special technique to really touch my lover's G spot, resulting in her having deeper cervical, push out orgasms and even ejaculation orgasms and this was easier than I expected.
Taking your lover much deeper than she has ever gone before with any man is just so yummy.
When she goes so deep, she opens and opens.

Feeling Your Lover Totally Open Her Heart To You Is So Special

Much to my surprise, I also found that I could give a woman an orgasm without even touching her. And, guys, if you think this is impossible, I have taught other men in my private sexology practice to do this, too. To be truthful, I am not always 100% successful, as it does depend on a women's ability to orgasm and her sensitivity, but most of the time women are absolutely blown away and eager to learn more about me and what else I can do!

I learned how to take a woman into orgasm after orgasm for 20 minutes or longer and feeling each of her orgasms in my body without coming, too! Sometimes my orgasm went on for minutes, and since I did not ejaculate, I gained energy and was still ready for more!

It was a big discovery I had when talking to a lot of women about sex. They generally wanted a different type of lovemaking than the usual porn-style sex with little connection. I remember doing a sex course and 20 women were asked what kind of lovemaking they find most fulfilling. It was surprising in that 18 out of 20 wanted more sex that was deep, slow and connected. Tantric sex is a good word for describing what they wanted. Of course, there is still a place for wild, passionate sex, and learning tantric techniques will enhance every sexual experience.

I started to see how there is so little real sexual education out there. I discussed sex with a close male friend and he told me that the….

The G Spot Just Does Not Exist.

I found this a bit amusing, as the week before I had spend 2 hours touching my lover's G Spot and she went to amazing orgasmic places. A few times, after a huge orgasm, she actually stopped breathing for 20 seconds or so. She later described this time as totally beyond everything, totally cosmic and so very special.
Compare this with the average man in the USA who comes in 6 minutes. Just think of how many frustrated women there are out there. Boring sex leads to bad relationships that lead to affairs and finally, separation. So, I feel the high divorce rate is due to men not guiding their wives into intense, erotic, orgasmic and even spiritual states during love making, which is really so easy and rewarding once you know how.
Focusing on taking your partner to intense, ongoing orgasmic states is great. However, I discovered I could take my lover past these states to a much deeper, more profound level. The way to see if this is happening is to tune into their breathing. When they enter these states, their breathing will slow down and stop for around 20 seconds. This experience can be repeated again and again.
There is a special method I use to help her enter these states that I cover in my manual. After these deep spiritual experiences most women are transformed for months.
Getting Feedback That You Are A Master At Lovemaking Is Really Nice!
From talking to my friends, I could see that there is a lack of real knowledge of how deep you can go in sex, so I became highly motivated and attended many Tantra courses. I wanted some professional training, so I trained to be a sexological body worker. The Californian Government now recognizes me as a qualified Sexologist.
I love my professional work as I get paid to teach couples and even take women to intense erotic and orgasmic experiences. It gives me a lot of satisfaction that in the course of a 2 hour tantric massage, I usually take a client to an orgasmic depth that their husband of many years never did! I have even worked with couples on their honeymoon. I see many individual women and couples each year.
I recommend 6 private tantra sessions with me to really explore your orgasmic potential. However, this gets expensive and most of you live too far away to visit.  So, out of my experience with clients over the years, I have put together a simple course with 14 exercises that will to take your lovemaking to a new level and here’s the best part: I will NOT teach you much theory at all. (Well, only a little bit!)
 
You can talk about sex theory and better sex until the end of world but honestly, it's just theory and boring compared to the actual practice.

So, if you're serious about better sex,Don't hesitate any longer


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I was married for 20 years and have recently split up. When I make love sometimes I lose strength in my erection or I can’t get it up as quickly as I used to. It’s embarrassing.

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Now I'm with a new girlfriend she’s 39. I can now keep up with her; I wouldn’t have had a chance like this before without these skills. She thinks I’m great, and I have so much more confidence’.
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Master Ejaculation Control

Discover How To Make Love For As Long As You Choose And How To Master Ejaculation Control.

Sexually, men face two major difficulties throughout their lives. The first is, as a young, virile teenager, being able to last long enough to satisfy a woman, or even satisfy yourself. After weeks of anticipation, it is often all over in a few minutes. Do you remember those times? Or are you still in the position of sometimes not lasting as long as you would like? What an embarrassment it is for a man of any age to ejaculate too soon. Not a happy memory.
Not a happy memory for a married man either, especially if your wife does not want to make love as much as you do. When she does, you ejaculate too soon and she is left feeling frustrated and sometimes angry. Even though she might not say so or show it, she feels it. Not good times for a man of any age. I would rate ejaculating before the woman wants to, high on any man's private list of embarrassing times.
Be honest about this. If it is a problem sometimes and you want to do something about it, the first step is to acknowledge it to yourself. Remember, you are not the only man who faces this difficulty.
The second major difficulty is: at some stage in your later years, you will no longer come too soon, but you won't come at all. You won't be able to get an erection or if you do, it certainly won't stand up as straight and hard as it used to. Very often your woman's sexual energy has increased because most women reach their sexual prime when they are over forty. There is the opportunity for lovemaking, but you can't do anything about it because your sexual energy is not as strong. If you do get an erection and ejaculate, instead of the mind blowing explosion it used to be, it barely trickles out. It's more like a squeak than a roar. If you haven't experienced this yet, I guarantee that at some stage it will happen.
However there is something you can do about it, as it is not necessarily a part of ageing. These major difficulties can be overcome through learning the essential techniques of ejaculation control.
First Secret: The Pubic Coccyx
(PC) Muscle
The first and most important thing to learn is how to strengthen your pubococcygeus muscle (PC muscle) or love muscle. This muscle is the major muscle of contraction in male and female orgasm. Strengthening the PC muscle helps to strengthen your erection and increase the sensations of your climax, which is very important in older years.
The PC muscle extends from the base of the spine, where it is connected to the coccyx, to the front of the body where it is connected to the pubic bone. Just as you can tense and release your fist or tense and release your shoulders, you can tense and release the PC muscle. This will exercise the muscle that can increase your and your partners pleasure.
Anyone can tense their fist. Try it now to give you the idea. Tense your fist and feel your biceps muscle tighten, then release – totally. Now see if you can tense and release the biceps muscle alone. Muscle isolation practice will help you to isolate the PC muscle.
It is the PC muscle you use to cut off urination. The next time you urinate, try to stop the flow in midstream to get a feeling of activating the PC muscle only. At first you may need to tighten the whole pelvic floor which includes the anus muscle and perhaps the lower abdominal muscles.
Some men may need to tense the whole upper body to pull up the PC muscle. See if you can locate the PC muscle. Flex it, even if your whole body tightens. Just as you isolated the muscle in the biceps from the fist, you can totally relax your upper body and still tense the pelvic floor.
Try it now as you are reading this. Your pelvic floor is tight, but the rest of your body is relaxed. As you practise this regularly and your PC muscle gets stronger, you will be able to distinguish it from the nearby muscles. In the earlier stages, do not concern yourself with this, just tighten and release all the muscles in this pelvic floor area, including the anus and buttocks. Continue to tighten and release several times.
Later in your own private space, while you are standing in front of a mirror, continually draw up and release this PC muscle as if you are holding back urination. You will notice that you can make the penis move up and down as you tighten and release this muscle. If you can do this, then you know you are exercising the right muscle.
Now that you have located the muscle you can start to strengthen it. Incorporate these simple exercises into your daily routine, associating them with a particular activity and independent of your lovemaking sessions. Then the exercises will become habitual and you won't have to set aside a special time to practise. For example, you can practise while you drive or travel to and from work and no one will know you are doing it. Strengthening the PC muscle is one of the greatest lovemaking secrets a man can know.

The Power of Tantra and the Many Paths

WHAT IS TANTRA by Janet Kira & Sasha Lessin, Ph. D.

    Tantra, an ancient spiritual practice and high art form given us by the gods, helps us--their children--awaken, be conscious, feel oneness with each other, remember who we are and experience unity with all that is. Tantra's spiritual psychology that clears chakras (energy centers in the body), heals ancient wounds and reprograms cultural conditioning that has distanced us from those we love.
Tantra involves yoga stretching to heal our bodies, connect our breath and postures, center and balance us. Tantra meditation triggers electromagnetic kundalini that surges orgasmically up our spines, connecting us to lovers and tothe divine. Tantric practices simultaneously make heighten our sense of both individuality and loving oneness with our beloveds. Tantra mandates clear communication, kind relating and sensual mating that soars us in sweet sacred surrender from the depths of our soul to stratospheric heights where we lose ourselves in the beauty of love.
Tantra's centering, the balance of yin/yang, male female, inner/outer, above/below, adult/child. When we center ourselves, we develop an Aware Ego and become conscious of prejudices and judgements towards others. We notice criticisms with which we punish ourselves. We tame our demons and learn how to take personal responsibility for our own baggage and not project it outward onto others in harmful ways.
Tantra's feeling others as we feel ourselves–taking others into consideration when making decisions. Tantra's consensus reality, embracing group mind while honoring individuality and consciousness in each being, respecting and granting all free will and creative expression.
The tantric path is a spiritual discipline, where we practice bakti yoga (divine service), to the apparent other, the beloved, our lover and personalized God or Goddess. They, in kind, lovingly are in service to us, devoted to our healing, well-being and personal growth. In this sacred service We discover giving and receiving are the same.
Tantra's weaving, weaving all the levels of our awareness, called chakras, within us and between us and those we love. Chakras correlate with our body parts, loosely associated where ganglia join; at the bottom of our torso, genitals, belly, heart, throat, brain and neocortex. Our first chakra relates to our perineum, our need to belong, feel safe, secure and healthy, grounded in our material and emotional existence. The second chakra relates to our sexuality and reproductive organs, our need to feel sexual and sensual. The third chakra's our belly, the need to take what's rightfully ours and empower ourselves. The fourth chakra's our heart which guides us to love, cherish, support, heal and encourage ourselves and our lover. The fifth chakra's the throat where we learn how to communicate clearly, kindly, authentically. The sixth chakra's the home of the brain: vision, intuition, intellect where we learn how to receive, share and expand visions for ourselves, each other, others We love, our community and world. In the crown chakra tantric meditations invoke awareness of our unity with everyone and everything.
Tantra helps us rise to broader perspectives, yet stay aware of the wisdom of all our chakras. We encompass more than what we think we are and expand our awareness to more than our body. We expand our perspective to even more than awareness of us and our darling, more than the awareness we share with each other and with humans, with life itself, or even with the Earth. We feel our oneness with everyone and everything everywhere at all-times. We experience unity, the seamless web of consciousness linking the manifest universe. We merge with the latent--unformed but constantly arising––reality of the metacosmic void, identify with divine play that can manifest all forms and appreciate endless diversity while knowing we're one with it all, in love will all creation. 

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What is Tantra? A Tantrik Talks About the Basics of Tantrism

Tantra has been one of the most neglected branches of Indian spiritual studies despite the considerable number of texts devoted to this practice, which dates back to the 5th-9th century AD. Many people still consider tantra to be full of obscenities and unfit for people of good taste. It is also often accused of being a kind of black magic. However, in reality, tantra is one of the most important Indian traditions, representing the practical aspect of the Vedic tradition.
The religious attitude of the tantriks is fundamentally the same as that of the Vedic followers. It is believed that the tantra tradition is a part of the main Vedic tree. The more vigorous aspects of Vedic religion were continued and developed in the tantras. Generally tantriks worship either Goddess Shakti or Lord Shiva.

The Meaning of "Tantra"

The word "tantra" is derived from the combination of two words "tattva" and "mantra". "Tattva" means the science of cosmic principles, while "mantra" refers to the science of mystic sound and vibrations. Tantra therefore is the application of cosmic sciences with a view to attain spiritual ascendancy. In another sense, tantra also means the scripture by which the light of knowledge is spread: Tanyate vistaryate jnanam anemna iti tantram.
There are essentially two schools of Indian scriptures - "Agama" and "Nigama". Agamas are those which are revelations while Nigama are the traditions. Tantra is an Agama and hence it is called "srutishakhavisesah", which means it is a branch of the Vedas.

Tantric Scriptures

The main deities worshipped are Shiva and Shakti. In tantra there is a great significance of "bali" or animal sacrifices. The most vigorous aspects of Vedic traditions evolved as an esoteric system of knowledge in the Tantras. The Atharva Veda is considered to be one of the prime tantrik scriptures.

Types & Terminology

There are 18 "Agamas", which are also referred to as Shiva tantras, and they are ritualistic in character. There are three distinct tantrik traditions - Dakshina, Vama and Madhyama. They represent the three "shaktis" or powers of Shiva and are characterised by the three "gunas" or qualities - "sattva", "rajas" and "tamas". The Dakshina tradition, characterised by the "sattva" branch of tantra is essentially for good purpose. The Madhyama, characterised by "rajas" is of mixed nature, while the Vama, characterised by "tamas" is the most impure form of tantra.

Rustic Tantriks

In Indian villages, tantriks are still not quite hard to find. Many of them help the villagers solve their problems. Every person who has lived in the villages or has spent his childhood there, has a story to tell. What is so easily believed in the villages might appear illogical and unscientific to the rational urban mind, but these phenomena are realities of life.

Desire for Worldly Pleasures

Tantra is different from other traditions because it takes the whole person, and his/her worldly desires into account. Other spiritual traditions ordinarily teach that desire for material pleasures and spiritual aspirations are mutually exclusive, setting the stage for an endless internal struggle. Although most people are drawn into spiritual beliefs and practices, they have a natural urge to fulfill their desires. With no way to reconcile these two impulses, they fall prey to guilt and self-condemnation or become hypocritical. Tantra offers an alternative path.
The Tantrik Approach To Life
The tantrik approach to life avoids this pitfall. Tantra itself means "to weave, to expand, and to spread", and according to tantrik masters, the fabric of life can provide true and ever-lasting fulfillment only when all the threads are woven according to the pattern designated by nature. When we are born, life naturally forms itself around that pattern. But as we grow, our ignorance, desire, attachment, fear, and false images of others and ourselves tangle and tear the threads, disfiguring the fabric. Tantra "sadhana" or practice reweaves the fabric, and restores the original pattern. This path is systematic and comprehensive. The profound science and practices pertaining to hatha yoga, pranayama, mudras, rituals, kundalini yoga, nada yoga, mantra, mandala, visualization of dieties, alchemy, ayurveda, astrology, and hundreds of esoteric practices for generating worldly and spiritual prosperity blend perfectly in the tantrik disciplines.